I may have mentioned this before, but my Aunt once said, “It is a bad thing when people lie to you. But it is terrible when you lie to yourself.” I’ve experienced disappointment twice recently due to the actions of others. The most painful part is realizing that I had deceived myself into believing these individuals were genuine when, in reality, they weren’t. It’s frustrating to confront the fact that I fell for such a deceitful illusion.
I find myself questioning who is genuinely sincere in today’s world and how one can discern authenticity from deception. The ambiguity leaves me wondering, “Is this real, or am I deceiving myself?” It’s disheartening to contemplate whether people, in general, are as malicious as they seem.
I’m astounded by people’s capacity to spin untruths and create elaborate fabrications about themselves and their aspirations in life. The incredible part is how convincing they can be. It’s almost unfathomable how easily one can be fooled by their lies, even if just for a moment. Part of me hesitates to approach every encounter with a suspicious eye because I genuinely want to believe in the inherent goodness of people. I’ve always thought that seeing and seeking the best in others is an admirable quality, but the recent experiences make me question my judgment, and I feel foolish for falling into their traps
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